The truth is that we are all not perfect and those naive ones of us believe that you have got to find that person whose negativities don’t bother you. But is it possible? This may be a question that i should mention while having one of those conversations with older people, ones more experienced and wiser than me. However then life would turn into a test where you’re cheating because you already have the answers to the questions. Afterwords when you get your mark or call it one of those moments of realisation where you draw the line and ask yourself: what have i done in my life?, you see that you have done good but just because of someone elses ready answers. You can’t compare the feeling of satisfaction to when you have made all the right choices by yourself. It is just not the same. So then you realise that the future wouldn’t be as nice to live if we knew what is about to happen. Does this mean that life is all about risks? Well i guess so. You do make a risk with every decision you make, weather going to the shop first and then shower or do it the other way around, what movie should you watch or even, is your beloved person worth your time or you should find someone better for you. It’s all decisions, life is full of decisions we have to make. Going back to the idea of the imperfections of your other half maybe it depends if what they do that is upsetting you is enough for you to leave. Here now you get face-to-face with one more decision. What if you can get used to their negativities and in the future all they would do is to make you more and more happier? Ah, my romantic soul just started talking instead of me. Or maybe it is all a fight within yourself, with yourself, and you will find all the answers to your questions within you. Considering that the human race exists for more than a billion years and the our DNA is passed to our children, have you imagined how much the people before you have been through? All the decisions and risks they have taken? If all of this gets passed to us, we may actually be able to resolve all problems with our coded knowledge. The only thing left to do is to look within yourself. Some ask me: well how do you actually do this?, and what i say back is that they have to learn to love themselves. Be compassionate to yourself and know how much you are worth. A stranger man once told me:”You have to love yourself for who you are and know that no one is better than you but you’re not better than anyone else”.